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A few days ago someone was reblogging an image of a facebook conversation where anonymous people were complaining about how some people are just looking for something to be offended about, in that “Oh, I’m so above this PC bullshit, tee hee hee” sort of way.
Gentle reader, I laughed until I cried.
I come to tumblr to look at picspams of Sailor Moon and image manips from Doctor Who and things that are yellow and happy looking dogs and have deep and meaningful discussions about toaster waffles and learn more about musicals and talk about bras and shoes and be reminded that abby jean is awesome and all those things, and yet somehow I can’t see to go even 24 hour on Tumblr without having someone cleverly tell me that people like me, people like my husband, people like my friends, should be eradicated from the planet for the sake of society. Over the past few days it’s been the idea that people with disabilities should be prevented from having children because there shouldn’t be more disabled children because they’re a burden and disabled parents are abusive anyway; there’s been a big discussion on whether or not people talking about their experiences of psychophobia are making shit up. There’s been weeks of people saying talking about *ist language is “language policing” rather than an attempt at discussing how language reflects our beliefs about other people. There’s been some oh-so-funny discussion about how some people just deserve to be raped because hey! they criticized someone famous on the internet once. There’s been people taking the personal time to write someone to tell her they hope she gets raped for talking about racism and colonialism. There’s been “lol too sensitive” directed at trans people and gender-non-conforming people for wanting to be included in the “us” who can be affected by abortion and forced sterilization. There’s been the constant stream of “Today in the media I consume the main female character was raped/the main female character was fridged/the only representation of disability was as the villain/the only representation of trans* people was of horror/let’s all have a nice debate on whether bisexuality exists”.
I want to watch T.V. and not cringe when someone in a wheelchair is brought on. I want to be able to see a person who is like me who isn’t brought on to be a very special lesson to a white person about the meaning of life, or as a violent criminal. I want a story about a trans* person written by a trans* person and played by a trans* person. I want to see a blind person portrayed as a person who happens to be blind, not as a Seer played by a sighted person who talks about how uplifting it was. I want to see a movie where no characters are white washed, that passes the Blechdel Test and the Brown Betty Test and does both without people even noticing because it’s become common place to see movies that reflect who-we-are rather than the expectations of white men.
If I could go 24 hours surfing the internet as I usually do and not run into any of the hate and derision directed at me, at people in my life, at people I care about, at some people I really dislike but do not deserve the shit piled on them, at people who I don’t know but I do know are ignored and marginalized in society…
Well, then I could come on Tumblr, look at pictures of cute boys reading books while puppies lick their faces, and stop being so lol sensitive.
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